I average 4 a night. Been doing this for 30+ years. Back in the day, I drank ALOT. Volunteered for rehab once, and got put in rehab once. That was 15 and 12 years ago respectively. Yes, my drinking was out of control there for a while. main reason (I think) is I was drinking hard liqour like I drink beer, and I had a very high stress job. Plus I was all about the party, and the people I hung with were too. Not that I'm trying to justify anything, but I've come to the conclusion that if EtoH doesn't affect you life in a negative way (marriage, kids, work, law, financial, health, etc.) then whats to worry about?
I've been married for 20 years, happily, tho with all the usual problems two people living together would have. I have 4 great kids, two great grandkids. Have completed one succesful career(military) and am 8 years into another one, making more bucks than I ever imagined. Never been arrested, haven't even had a ticket in over 25 years. I get a physical every year and my doc says I'm very healthy.
My main problem is I like beer. I like the ritual, the taste, the little buzz behind the eyes about 1/2 way into the second one.
For instance....it's 0600 as I write and I'm on my third beer. For some people drinking in the morning indicates a problem. However, I've been up for 14 hours. I'm currently working nights.
I'll probably die with a beer in my hand.