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I'll share to first timers. If someone thinks their coming back for more free beer has another thing coming.
You cook dinner for yourself every day. Everyday a friend comes over and has the meal with you. You end up cooking extra expecting it. So the question in these terms is:
Can you or should you request that the friend pitch in for groceries?
The answer is Hell Yes.
When I invite people to my home I invite them as guests, not part time cooperative members of the household.
We're not talking about someone who is over occasionally. We're talking about people who are "eating at your house" 3 or 4 times a week.
This attitude is odd to me, but seems prevalent every time this topic comes up.
When I invite people to my home I invite them as guests, not part time cooperative members of the household.
...a situation that the person is ALWAYS coming over.
...I offer to guests and take my brew to parties, occasionally give a bottle or two to a repairman fixing my house and the like.
...Unless you are well off and can afford to make as much as you want then is it OK to ask.