thanks for all the help on this guys. there are a lot of great suggestions and i will try many of them.
to answer a couple of your questions, i do not use an immersion chiller, i use a swamp cooler with large pieces of ice surrounding the kettle. as far as buying a new bucket, that would solve the problem for a batch or two, but ultimately i would have to deal with it all over again. i want to solve it with the setup i have now. the only upgrade i can see to my fermenters are to upgrade to stainless steel, which i don't have the ability to afford. i have had no problem with 8 prior batches of all grain recipes until this occurred. so it is something i can fix. i will fix it.
i have replaced all tubing. i have bleach bombed everything. i like the advice to soak everything for days/weeks in sanitizer solution prior to use. i have now done this. the only thing left to do is to break down the valves on the 2 bottling buckets i have so i can thoroughly clean the pieces.
my LHBS owner, JP, gave me a sample of PBW to use and i plan to use that also. i never have before and am willing to give it a try. if i have any more questions i will not hesitate to post them. there is too much knowledge and experience on this board not to. those critters will not get the best of me.