Don't worry about the stir-plate. In my opinion, I feel it's an unnecessary implement. Cool thing to have, but unnecessary. I agitated maybe five times the first 18 hours. Once I saw visible activity (effervescence) I stopped and just let the yeast agitate itself.
To my knowledge, the amount of DME you use doesn't have much to do with overpitching, but might have an impact on the integrity of the yeast that you first pitch into the starter. From what I've read, starters over 1.040 SG are hazardous to yeast health that early on.
That said, I went with 4 ounces (by weight) of DME per 1 liter of solution, and my yeasties have been chugging away for nearly 24 hours at this point. I also added 1/4 teaspoon of Wyeast nutrient to get them rolling as well. I'm not much for SG readings, so I'm fairly sure that ratio (which I found on some website or other) has to be inline, and the Whitbreads have been going steady.
You'd pretty much have to pitch a pint of pure slurry (ie: yeast cake or slime) to even begin worrying about over-pitching. I was worrying about over-pitching when I inoculated my starter with a tablespoon of slurry, then realized there was most likely far less yeast in that tablespoon than the average smack-pack...gravy, in other words.
Your culture is looking good. Got that little bit of head forming that indicates to me everything is healthy and rolling. The color looks right. I think you're golden.