1. Yes - you're exactly right, although I believe with a keg, you need slightly less priming sugar. Do a few searches on here and you'll find a good reference point to use.
2. Most of this is up to you, but this will help:
http://www.kegerators.com/carbonation-table.php - now, there are a couple factors to consider here: what temperature you want to serve the beer at, what level of carbonation in volumes, and how long your beer lines are going to be. If you can get 10 ft. beer lines, it's a good idea - because you can always cut them shorter if need be. Balancing a draft system can be done a few different ways, and there are as many differences in serving preference as there are individual kegerators out there. Here's my method:
I generally like to serve my beers @ around 45 degrees & I don't mind if they warm a little as I'm enjoying them. I don't like overcarbonated beers either. So, I typically have my kegerator running between 41-43 degrees and I'll let a new keg sit there for a little while to cool to that temperature. I set my regulator at 12 psi. So, if you look where 12 psi and 42 degrees intersect on the chart above, that would be 2.39 volumes - which is right in the middle of the "most ales" carbonation level (guidelines are @ the bottom). I think this would work well for your Rauchbier. The line length comes into play when you are pouring. As you increase that psi setting, beer will flow through your lines faster. If your lines are too short, the beer will hit the glass w/ too much speed and you can have a violent pour that gets too foamy on you. If you set your psi really low, the beer will slowly pour through the lines and you may have trouble getting a proper head on your pint (that's been my experience, anyway).
You will find a lot of people here that want to carbonate much, much quicker than I do - and that's ok, just not my style. You can blast it with more pressure and shake it like crazy and do all kinds of stuff to get that CO2 to diffuse into the liquid, or you can employ the "set it and forget it" method as I do. To be honest, my way requires a little more patience, but as long as you've got good beer on hand while you're waiting - it shouldn't be too painful.
Hopefully this helps & good luck with your beer!