Fingers said:If you're saying what I think you are, bird, that guy needs a kick in the ass more than another invitation to your house. I hate scumbags like that.
My brew buddies tend to be under the age of 18. The 17 year old gets a mug but the little ones only get a taste. The 14 year old is Daddy's official 'brew buddy'.
That being said, I wouldn't mind having someone over who isn't related to me, but just one. Too many and it turns into a party that is just a distraction.
Not a scumbag. Brother-in-law. I think he was disappointed I did an AG batch instead of showing him how to brew extract (even though I described everything to him as to how it would relate for extract). Plus, it was cold and he was all over his g/f.
As to the SWMBO issue - women just don't seem to like fire, methinks. I don't know exactly why, propane's just a guy thing. This wouldn't explain the reluctance to "help" during extract brewing, though, so I don't know.