Also, just an aside, but, you said you fermented in a "temp controlled room". If you can control the temps, I'd get it into the low 60's, not 74. I've got some Pacman yeast munching away on my Winter Ale right now, and the fermometer sayeth 59f. Yeeeehaw! John Maier, Rogue's brewmaster, says he ferments at 60f. Personally, I have noticed much better quality (and much crisper ales) when fermenting at lower temps.
Get those temps down, man! 60-65f.
As for why it's too sweet, it could be the massive fluctuation in fermenting temps that you talk about. You're on the right track by making a starter and oxygenating the wort. You might also add yeast nutrients to the starters.
Don't worry, though. Every day, I like my Irish Red less and less. It was my first go at brewing by myself, and it was all extract with a few specialty grains. It turned out okay, but ferment temps were way high because it was the dead of summer...so it has this weird taste...drinkable, but it's just odd. I'm down to my last few bottles, so, good riddance. My point, though, is that we make less-than-perfect beers from time to time. If I were you, I'd take the advice from above and make a "hop tea" that you just add to your wort...just to balance it out a little bit.