Hi Mrclasen,
Can you describe the bitterness you are perceiving? I know this is really difficult to do, but I ask because the two styles you have brewed are known for strong flavors but not particularly bitter ones.
Without knowing about your process, I also wonder if you might be tasting astringency (think of sucking on a wet tea bag). This can develop if you extract excess tannins from the grains (even during steeping) by heating them higher than 170-175F for prolonged periods. This flavor could become more pronounced over time. Oxidation, while not bitter (think of wet cardboard) is another suspect.
Bitterness usually diminishes gradually over time. I have brewed a couple of IPA's that peaked in flavor around 6 weeks, and then disappointingly gradually lost hoppiness afterward.
I would suggest checking your process to make sure you don't steep or sparge too hot.
You can also try waiting out your current batches to see if they taste better to you over time. It would be a great time to get another brew started!