I watched a few more videos, both from John Palmer and BIAB vids. To me, the first video I posted..just talking purely on the process, made the most sense to me. I felt like it was very relatable, like I could easily set that system up in my kitchen with very little difficulty or intimidation. I think my issue with the BIAB is it looks like it could be a hot, heavy, sticky mess really quickly (not to mention the usage of the bag was very inconsistent among videos, I'm using a 6 gal kettle and I'm confident the bag would fit, maybe I'm not looking at the right vids). If you can believe it, I think I actually found the techniques for BIAB to be 'more' complicated.
I can't say I'm excited to spend more money on brewing at this point but I'd rather invest in good equipment that's going to last and is going to serve me well than get something that was built half assed and may fail on me. I'm also not much of a DIY kind of guy. I do have a learning disability that involves reading comprehension (hense why I learn best buy watching + listening and then doing) and I don't read those step by step DIY instructions very well. It creates a lot of room for me to fudge something up. I'll browse around the DIY sticky section and see if I find something that makes sense but worse case scenario, I drop $80 on something that's guaranteed to support the process correctly. Besides, I'm already saving money by purchasing AG ingredient kits.
Also, the AG ingredient kits from MWS's ARE pre crushed which is good for me. And my first AG batch will be a pumpkin ale. Nothing too fancy so it would give me some good practice for the next batch which is going to a mint chocolate stout I'm prepping for Xmas time.
If anyone else has any more suggestions or links to possibly more informative videos on BIAB, I'm def open to watching them. Maybe you'll change my mind!