Mini mash is the only way to go with Oats. Lots of different versions on how to do it, but here is a quick method.
Use 1 lb crushed 2-row for every lb of oats. Use quick oats from the store (must be rolled, not steel cut).
Get a grain bag (a 5 gallon paint straining bag from hardware store is a good size, and can be re-used).
Heat 1.3 quarts of water for each lb to be mashed. 1 lb 2-row + 1 lb Oats = 2 lbs = 2.6 quarts of water. Heat water to 160 to 165 F and remove from heat. If you over shoot, add a little cold water. I would go for the lower end of the temp range to get it more fermentable - helpful with extract batches. Add grain in the bag to the water. Cover to keep warm, stir occasionally. After 20 minutes, it should be done, but longer is better. FYI, when the grain is in the water, the temp will drop; you want it to be in the range of about 148 to 155 F.
Remove and drain grain bag.
Have a second pot ready with similar amount of water heated to about 170 F. Place grain bag in, stir and let sit for 10 minutes. Then drain and you are done.
Combine both pots of water and brew as normal.
If you have any other grains in the recipe, add them along with he oats and 2-row. Crystal and dark malts do have starches that can be converted in a mash, that you would not get if you just steep them.