my fg stabilized at 1.010 for a while. of course i take hydrometer samples before racking. maybe you shouldn't assume the person you're talking to is a total novice if you really don't want to appear to come off "harsh".
my experimentation came from this post earlier in the discussion
i was using someone else's method for the sake of seeing what happens first hand. now i am telling you i didn't like the results. that's my conclusion.
um, obviously not. didn't i say this was an experiment and that i normally use a secondary? my beers spend 3+ weeks fermenting, normally. i will say again, this was an experiment.
My beers spend 10-14 days in the fermenter, and then are kegged. They are crystal clear, with little sediment. I think that there are more than a few keys to this, though. One is simply having clear wort to start with- a great mash and kettle pH, a good hot break, a good cold break, and then pitching the proper amount of yeast at the proper temperature and maintaining that. Once FG is reached, the beer is given about 3 days to ensure it's done and is clear (or at least clearing quite well). Then it is dryhopped if I'm dryhopping.
I'm an old winemaker, and so am extremely proficient with racking and not picking up any trub or hops debris at all.
That means my beer is generally totally clear while being kegged.
Also, for clarity, starting with a clear wort and using a flocculant yeast if possible means a clear beer shortly after fermentation ends. Some yeast stains I use, notably Denny's Favorite 50 Wyeast 1450, are not very flocculant but clear well after three days in the kegerator. There is a difference between a slight yeast haze, and murky beer. I never package a murky beer.
One of the reasons homebrewers like to give the beer extra time in the fermenter is to "clean up" off flavors- but if you don't create them in the first place, then they don't need to age out.
I think it's great that we're talking about our own experiences (good or bad) and not relying on things we've read or a rule-of-thumb about length of the time in the fermenter.
I would point out that a commercial brewer friend would be incredulous at some of the posts stating that they keep the beer in the fermenter for a minimum of a month. But if the homebrewer loves the beer made that way, that's awesome and that's really what it's all about.
Try different approaches to see which one works for YOU. I have. I've done many different methods over the years, and settled on what makes the best beer in my system. What works for others may be a bit different, or a lot different- but try several things to see what's "best".