There is no magic to "the ratio". If you want to accentuate malt flavors, ensure you've got chlorides. If you want to accentuate hop bitterness, ensure you've got sulfates. If you want to accentuate both, ensure you've got both. If you don't care to accentuate either one, use neither. The "ratio" concept is a complete farce. The two ions act completely independently of one another.
Personally I do think there is some advantage to a bit of NaCl salt in the beer. Go easy on it. Don't turn your beer into seawater like so many commercial goses these days -- bleccch!
All of this depends on your source water. If building water from distilled or RO, then you'll generally have to add various salts to get what you want. If using hard water from the tap or a well, then often times you won't need to add any salts. Software such as Bru'nWater will help you get the results you want.
In GENERAL, for pale ales and IPAs, you'll want your sulfate level to be as high as 300 ppm or more, in which case you'll USUALLY need to add some gypsum to get there.
Skip the Epsom, it's too easy to overdo -- magnesium does not taste good and is not essential to yeast health, they'll get all the magnesium they need from the malt.