True and the same could be said about Pasta Sauce. Not sure I would consider myself an Italian Cook though if I started with a can of Ragu.
Glad to see I'm not the only person to feel this way... I don't consider myself an "Italian" cook, but a damned good cook all the same.
I also agree with the statements made about AG being more flexible, plus it gives YOU total control over what the grain bill actually is... More times than I care to think about, I've seen postings where it's mentioned that there's more in light extract than just pale malt... If you're going after a specific flavor, you want to know, exactly, what you're ingredients are...
As for figuring things out, start with a clone recipe... There's plenty of sources for getting those... BYO's web site for one thing, has some solid clone recipes... I'm actually getting their 250 clone recipe book (arrives tomorrow)... I picked up the 200 recipe clone book earlier, but I'm looking for more variety... There's also more than a few solid clone recipes posted on these boards... If you can buy it in a store, chances are someone has posted a clone recipe for it.
Of course, there's also a lot to be said for just winging it and figuring it out on your own... My first ESB/English IPA was pretty basic in it's recipe... 11# UK 2 row base malt (I used 6# MO, 5# Golden Promise), 1# British Crystal Malt I (45 SRM), .25# Victory Malt, 1 oz Target hops (45 minute boil), 1 oz Fuggles hops 5 minute boil, and 1# honey added after about 2 weeks in primary... When I make it again, I'll probably change the hops a little, putting the Target hops to 60 minutes, adding a 20 minute hops, as well as some at either 5 minutes or flame-out... Used Scottish Ale (Wyeast 1728) in it... Came out really good, a crowd pleaser... Mashed around 150-152 for 90 minutes... Hit an OG of 1.052 (yeah, this one sucked for efficiency) and a FG of 1.010 (WOOT!)... Next time, I'll go to 10# UK 2 row base malt, and probably not add the honey at all... Might go with some Honey Malt though...
Once you've got all grain down, you might want to explore washing yeast... IF you're using liquid yeast at least. It makes each batch a lot cheaper that way. Probably doesn't make as much sense if you're using dry yeast....