cd2448 said:my wife hated it at first because i left the kitchen in a real mess (same problem whenever i cook anything
now i have things somewhat more organized, she's cool with it. .
This is so true. I find that anytime you're doing something that SWMBO can't really understand or appreciate, you MUST leave the house in better condition than you found it. It's win win.
SWMBO likes beer but would rather drink Coors Light. No, I can't change it. As much as she tries to like more flavorful brews, it doesn't happen. She uses my time/money spent brewing as ammunition in arguements but she feels like **** about it afterwards.
Let's face it, no matter what your obsession, they just don't like feeling like they come second EVER. Of course, maybe the answer is that you're with a selfish as$hole but you have to come to that realization on your own ;-)