I use Beer Smith to make/scale recipes. I tinker with them quite a bit, but using the software makes it pretty easy. When I went all-grain I didn't want to purchase a lot, and I am also the only one driking my beer mostly. I tinkered with 2.5g no-sparge batches by getting and modifying a 5g cooler with a spigot and a stainless steel braid. I was getting about 60% efficiency which wasn't a problem with the smaller grain bill. That worked for a while, but when I started going for bigger beers I had to start sparging. I usually get 65-75% efficiency now.
Over time I got a bunch of 3g Better Bottles (6 now!), and I upped the batch size to 3g due to losses in transfer.
One real nice benefit is bottling is a breeze (only 24 12oz bottles).
Good luck!