Welcome aboard HBT!
I don't think you could go wrong with any of the starter equipment kits from the major online vendors: Northern Brewer, Austin Homebrew Supply, Midwest Supplies, Williams Brewing, or MoreBeer. Also, these places have good ingredient kits.
My one recommendation is that if you can afford it, get an equipment kit that has a Better Bottle in it-- it's a very light, strong, plastic version of the ubiquitous 5/6 gallon glass carboy. The advantages are that it's light and won't break into shards of glass that could seriously injure you.
-Steve