jzamora3
Well-Known Member
Good evening gents!
So I'm getting married in October. I've been with my fiance for 4 years and we've definitely had our ups and downs over the years. She SUPER close to her family, especially her brother who she's views as a 2nd father.
So my bachelor party is being planned right now. A weekend rager in Vegas with 3 of my closest friends. My initial thought is to not invite the brother due to the fact that I don't really know him and this is a "special" trip for me and my boys. I'm not planning on doing anything stupid, but don't know how comfortable I would be (and how comfortable) he would be as the "third" wheel since he doesn't know anyone.
Vanessa (my fiance) initially demanded that he be invited but now she's somewhat guilting me into by sayings, "it's your choice, I'd like you to invite him, but I'll support whatever decision you make."
If it was a weekend in town of golfing and drinking then yeah, I'd have no problem inviting him but this is turning into a somewhat elaborate trip that my best man is planning.
So do I invite the guy and "keep the peace"? Our families have somehow butted heads thought the wedding planning....
Or do I be somewhat selfish and say this is my one last hooo-rah and I'll get to know the guy over the years?
Help me out guys. I can see both sides but not sure what side is the right way.
Cheers!
So I'm getting married in October. I've been with my fiance for 4 years and we've definitely had our ups and downs over the years. She SUPER close to her family, especially her brother who she's views as a 2nd father.
So my bachelor party is being planned right now. A weekend rager in Vegas with 3 of my closest friends. My initial thought is to not invite the brother due to the fact that I don't really know him and this is a "special" trip for me and my boys. I'm not planning on doing anything stupid, but don't know how comfortable I would be (and how comfortable) he would be as the "third" wheel since he doesn't know anyone.
Vanessa (my fiance) initially demanded that he be invited but now she's somewhat guilting me into by sayings, "it's your choice, I'd like you to invite him, but I'll support whatever decision you make."
If it was a weekend in town of golfing and drinking then yeah, I'd have no problem inviting him but this is turning into a somewhat elaborate trip that my best man is planning.
So do I invite the guy and "keep the peace"? Our families have somehow butted heads thought the wedding planning....
Or do I be somewhat selfish and say this is my one last hooo-rah and I'll get to know the guy over the years?
Help me out guys. I can see both sides but not sure what side is the right way.
Cheers!