After a LOT of reading and researching I think I have settled on doing analog controls for a HLT and Boil kettle like a few of you suggested. I think that is a really good place to start. I have a few things I am saving for at this time but once I get my pumps, the electric elements will be very short to follow.
One last question for anyone experienced in this matter... I am not an experienced electrician and I am not sure what my garage setup would currently handle. I want to make sure that whatever I build is transferable to another place as I may be moving in the next few years. I feel that 120v elements are the way to go for this so that I can use a standard three pronged plug (perhaps get a really good surge protector and have my pumps and heating elements all connected to this). The issue i see is that most people dont do this type of setup. I more or less see many people doing the 240v as it is more convenient, and seems to be the norm. So, would this type of setup work based on the electric portion? I am just concerned that I will just overload my breaker constantly and not be able to run what I need to.
So just to review, my proposed setup (2 120v elements in a HLT and 2 120v elements in my boil kettle, as well as 2 transfer pumps) I believe the breaker for my garage is either 20 or 30 amps. I would have to flip to be sure.
Edit: Also I have seen a few 120 volt 3000 watt heating elements that I feel would be able to run my system (sub 15 gallon batches, mostly less than 10 TBH). I am reading that it is pulling like 25 amps, so maybe only run one coil at a time, but would my pumps be able to run? As I as said before, mainly looking to be able to transfer this system to a new place with out having to install a 240v breaker just for brewing : (