The thing to remember about crush is that you want the hulls whole(ish) and you want to maximize the surface are of the meat of the kernel, while keeping it large enough that it doesn't clog up your mash tun. That said, what you want is the grain part to be bigger than the holes in your screen. I generally use my driver's license as a gauge on my mill, grind a few ounces and go from there. Without knowing your system, it's had to know what the ideal crush is (which is why it's a good idea to buy a mill in crush your own grain -- very few brew shops ask what kind of screen you have before they crush your grain).