Wow, we're so spoiled here, hard to fathom not having a brew store nearby.
Vintners Harvest is a good product, made by Oregon Fruits. Peel the label off and dunk in or spray with Starsan before opening.
With buckets I prefer NOT to lift the lid anymore unless utterly necessary, mainly to keep the headspace intact. You want to prevent infection, and a wide open bucket and the rim area are key problem areas.
Whenever handling the lid, even when not removing it, sanitize the rim area well by liberally spraying Starsan underneath, twice. I even use a small washcloth soaked in Starsan and mop the bottom of the lid's groove and the area around there, as well as the top and around the grommet area. You could then remove the airlock as well as the grommet (don't lose it!), and feed the cherry puree through a funnel. You may need to use a sanitized straw to poke it down.
If you really need to remove the lid, follow the sanitation instructions above, pry the lid off and wipe the rim area with a Starsan soaked, but not dripping, washcloth. You'll lose all the CO2 in the headspace instantly, but many brewers here have had no problems with that, as long as everything remains sanitized. Turn the AC off. Do not open your fermentors in dirty or dusty areas, near open windows, or where grain is stored or milled, or flour is in the air. Baking bread and cookies has to wait until your fermentors are closed up again. Resanitize the rim and lid before snapping it back on.
When all is done, and racking to your bottling bucket (or keg), put a small bag made of piece of voile or a fine mesh hop sack (sanitized!) around the bottom of the cane/siphon to prevent transferring fruit sludge.
Good luck!
It's gonna be a delicious Chocolate Cherry Milk Stout, like a cordial.