Okay...you're spending waay too much for this stuff...I'm not awake enough but I'll try to break it down.
First you can buy a complete brewing starter kit from any homebrew store or online for between 60 and 100 bucks, depending on what little extras you want or need. Take a look at the basic kit here
http://www.midwestsupplies.com/products/ProdBySubCat.aspx?SubCat=11166&fd=1 It's 60 bucks and has pretty much all you need to get started.
It comes with the capper and caps...some kits come with 2 cases of bottles as well.
But if you're going the "Ala Cart" route, then here's some things to consider...
You don't need to pay LHBS prices for some common kitchen type items which can be found in supermarket, hardware stores and even dollar stores. For example you don't need to spend 8 bucks for a funnel when you can find various sized ones in any hardware store or auto parts store for 2-3 bucks.
You don't need to spend 14.50 for a bottling bucket with spigot. Go to a big box home improvement center and look for a white or clear bucket that is a little larger than 5 gallons (a lot of them have ridges similiar to your fermentation bucket and usually say something like "5 gallons at 3rd ridge from top.) They cost between 4 and 5 bucks Something like this.
There is some debate as to whether these buckets are food grade or not, but on another forum, a brewer who was a chemist actually called homedepot corporate headquaters and talked to someone who confirmed that even though these buckets aren't labeled as food grade they indeed are. AND besides, you are not fermenting in them, you are using them for bottling, and your beer/wine will only be in there for the length of time it takes to bottle...I can bottle a 5 gallon batch in about an hour.
You can get a bottling spigot at your lhbs for about 2 bucks. Then you just need to drill a hole for the spigot approximately 1" from the bottom of the bucket.
Don't get the orange colored home depot though, noone's sure that the dye won't leach into your brew.
In the beginning you don't really need the Carboy Dryer
& The Brew Hauler. A lot of people use plastic milk crates to lift their carboys (I don't even bother, I just lift carefully.) And I really haven't need to let my carboy drain upside down. I wash them and let them airdry then sanitize them on racking day...or else I'm emptying one, cleaning/sanitizing it and refilling it with something else the same day. Since your planing to use a no-rinse sanitizer like starsan, you really don't need to let them dry you just drain out the sanitizer and pour in your beer or wine.
I don't have a bottle tree....they take a lot of space. I get the slotted bottle boxes from my local liquor store, or the ones from buying empties from my lhbs. I slide out the cardboard insert and lay down clean paper towels and replace the insert. Then after I sanitize my bottles, and shake them out I put them in the box upside down to let them drain, then flip them over to fill and cap. I also keep every little six pack carrier I get from the beer store and do the same thing, store the bottles upside down until bottling time. I also get for free from my beerstore the unslotted beer boxes that the cases of sixes come in....Surprisingly budlight boxes are the strudiest of them all. I fill 6 bottles, cap them, put them in a 6 pack and put 4 of the 6 packs into the bud box and close it up and stash in my closet to condition.
Personally I wouldn't get the test jar and instead get a winetheif for a couple bucks more. It is a tube with a little gaskety thing in the bottom. You sanitize it inside and out (sticking your hydrometer inside it to sanitize as well) then you lower it into your bucket or carboy, draw out a sample, take a hydro reading, and then empty the theif into a glass for a taste test (or you can rain your sample back into the bucket...but you know you want to tase, dont you?) If you go with the test tube, you still need a way to draw out a sample- a lot of people use turkey basters...but the theif draws and then is your test jar...
Honestly...if you're not going to be brewing beer or wine and just want to make apflewein, then skip the fermentation bucket and just get the better bottle, stopper and fermentation lock for now....total for all 3 about 25 bucks.
Again it all depends on what you want to do, now and in the future...and you can always add pieces as you get more profiecent or realize that you can't live without that 50 dollar bottle tree. Remember it isn't about the gadgets...The ancients made beer and wine using far more primitive tools.
But the biggest tip is don't buy funnels, strainers, spoons from your LHBS you'll pay a huge markup, look at hardware stores, grocery stores and dollar stores for common items- (same if you want to get a scale down the line).
Hope this helps.
