Your best bet is to visit your local homebrew shop, if you have one. If not, shop online, but call the vendor first. Get his/her advice. There are some very good kits available commercially that are not pre-hopped.
Or, you can research these forums. Decide first what kind of beer you would like to make. I would recommend something fairly straight forward, such as a pale ale, or an amber ale. As a general rule thumb, when it comes to designing beers, simpler is better.
I don't know what your boiling and fermenting capacity is, you might want to do something like:
5 or 6 lbs light liquid malt extract
1/2 to a pound of Crystal 40, steeped at 150 degrees for 30 minutes.
1/2 to a pound of Munich malt, steeped with the crystal.
1 ounce of Northern Brewer hops, boiled for an hour
1 ounce of Fuggles, boiled for 15 minutes.
Yeast of your choice.