Please keep the insults and personal remarks out of this. Thanks.
Many people have different thoughts and experiences and those are all valid, even if someone doesn't agree.
I'm not in the "month in primary" camp at all, and I am a pretty decent brewer.
I'm also not a big "secondary" fan either.
I tend to keep most beers in the fermenter for at least 3 days after fermentation ends, and until the beer starts to clear (or is perfectly clear), and that is often 10-14 days. That's not a mantra, that's not a "you must do this or your beer will suck" piece of advice- it's my experience via trial and error and shows my preference for less yeast character in the final beer.
The reason there are several schools of thought on this is because we all have preferences. Some people prefer the flavor of a beer that spent 3-4 weeks in primary, and that's great for them. Some, like me, prefer the flavor of a beer that has been removed from the yeast cake a few days after fermentation finishes. That's also fine.
For new brewers- try it both ways and see which YOU prefer.
As long as fermentation is finished for at least 3 days, and the beer is starting to clear, it's ok to move it either to a carboy or to bottles.