Curious... if you're too cheap to set up a whole beer gas system, or if you're feeding several kegs from one regulator, would it be possible to get a nitrogen bulb in one of the little handheld keg chargers and just add some nitrogen to one of your kegs every so often to mimic beergas?
One of the most important reasons to have the gas is to allow the Brewer to "balance" the system. In other words...have the gas regulator set at a point which 1) maintains the desired level of carbonation in the beer and 2) can force the beer through a "Stout Faucet" which is equiped with a restrictor plate.
If you're working on the cheap... Just carbonate your stouts like you do your other beers. I think the first thing to concentrate on is being able to get away from those dreadful bottles and move to a kegging system.
If you only have the one tank and regulator...that's not a problem that can't be overcome. It just requires a little more effort. You condition your beer...and then disconnect the tank. When you go to dispense...you can usually pour a few beers just as you are. But after dispensing quite a few...or you're done for the night. Reattach the gas to replenish the Carbon Dioxide so your beer maintains the desired level of fizziness. I used to use one gas fitting to push beer from 5 different kegs. Yeah...it's a nightmare sometimes...but it DOES work.
Next...keep your eye out for a Stout Faucet on eBay.
This seller has them from time to time at a really fantastic price:
http://shop.ebay.com/wally-gayle/m.html
Then...if you want to pour a creamy stout...just condition your kegged stout for a low co2 volume. Say around 5 psi at 38 degrees... When you're ready to serve...pump up the regulator pressure to 30 psi...and dispense through the stout faucet. You'll get a nice creamy head. The headache is...that you need to bleed that pressure back off to 5 psi to store your beer. If you leave it up at 30 for very long...the beer will overcarbonate...and the next time you pour through that stout faucet...you'll get so much foam you won't be able to get more than a swallow or two of stout from the glass. Most of the room will be pure foam.
Down the road you can add things as you go. A manifold perhaps so you can connect your CO2 to more than one keg at a time. And eventually a Beer Mix tank and regulator for your Stout.
You could try to use those little Nitrogen cartridges. If you condition your Stout with CO2 first...then just connect the cartridge when you go to dispense. The advantage being you can leave the extra Nitrogen pressure in the keg until the next time. You won't have to bleed it off like you would have to do with the CO2.
It's all good...as long as the drink you put in the keg is cared for. I compare some of these gadgets to lawnmowers ...you can use a push reel mower or a riding mower...they both do the same thing... one just requires more physical effort --- and the other more money.