I only brew in 5 gallon batches and I've read that foir the strike water you want a 1.25-1.5 water to grain ratio and then 1/2 a gallon of water per pound of grain for sparge.
Yes, for strike water in your mash you want ~1.5 qts per pound. However, the sparge number you mention is kind of a "to get the most out of your grain" thing, and it's also highly variable based on your efficiency.
The deal is, your first runnings (the strike water) will have a really high OG. For big beers, this may be the only water you use. However, for low and medium gravity beers, you'll then "dilute" that strike water down to your target OG using the sparge water. So, point is, you may or may not need/use 1/2 gallon per pound for the sparge. You'll just sparge until you reach your target OG which may or may not be your desired pre boil volume. If it's high, then you just boil longer. If it's low, then something wasn't right either in your mash or the amount of grain you used.
However, after you've hit your target OG (including sparge water), all that grain may still have some sugars in it. You can add this to your beer, but it will lower your OG. Or, depending on the gravity of the leftovers, you can make a small beer.
So, the entire point my ramblings is that 1/2 gallon per pound for sparge is really just an estimate to get the most sugar out of your grain post mash. It doesn't mean all of that goes into your brew pot. You can stop whenever.