when I lived in Vegas, Resist & Exist played a back yard show, along with some local wanna be crust. I got kicked out. the girls who put it together were self proclaimed riot girls. in reality, they just loved Rosie the Riveter & writing crappy 'zines. the whole time Resit played, Jay kept stopping and starting sentences with, "I don't know about out here, but in California...". I mocked everything he said & kept telling him to "go back to California then". this still wasn't enough for them to throw me out. it was a small joke that did the trick. between bands, I got on the mic and asked, "How many riot girls does it take to change a light bulb? Four. One to do it & three to write a 'zine about it."
moral of the story: It's OK to pee in a riot girls back yard in the middle of a crowd in broad daylight while some crust band is spewing gardening tips, squatting tips, and political nonsense.