After studying the attachment I'll write up some things that come to mind. You don't really need to switch your neutral on your power relay coil , but it's not going to hurt anything if you do. Also, I don't see any wire protection, do you have circuit breakers or fuses not in the diagram (Besides the 40A CB)?
Here's the reason I ask: In a rare event, your power relay coil shorts, leaving you with a direct short from your black 120V to neutral (when your power switch is on). Without a fuse or CB your wire will be cranking up to 40A before your main breaker trips. The wire could (and probably will) melt before the 40A breaker trips, considering it's 14 gauge rated at 15A. It may just get hot enough to melt the insulation and expose the bare copper too.
I see your fuse 1 protects your pump wiring and PID, and fuse 2 protects the alarm wiring (which could be a .5 amp fuse instead of 4 amp). I'm just suggesting putting a coil voltage fuse, like a 1A fast acting. There are good odds that you may never blow that fuse, but if you do, you'll be glad it's there. Maybe you already did and it's not shown in the diagram.