Gfei
Well-Known Member
I brew outside on the car port for the very same reason.
You need to understand how women communicate. They never just come out and say anything, you need to read the signals and subtle hints.
You HEARD it as a complaint about the smell.
But it was really an invitation to do the right thing and buy an outdoor turkey fryer.
And it will help if you also buy some flowers too.
To the OP, what people are having trouble processing here is not that she asked you to stop brewing in the house. That is fine, if she has ASKED you.
Here is how people with a HEALTHY relationship work this stuff out.
Wife: "Hey, lately when you have been brewing the smell is really awful and I am not a fan. Is there anything we can do to where you can still enjoy your hobby without offending my olfactory bulbs?"
You: "Why yes. Yes there is. I can either set up brewing outside, or brew with the windows open on a day you're out with the girls. And I thank you for respecting me and not being a demanding beehatch like this guy on the brewing forum's wife is."
My mother in law is very sensitive to things in the air, she's battling lung cancer and everyone's paranoid, no air fresheners or anything in the house.
Gerald
Lol nice, what color is the sky in your world? purple with yellow polk-a-dots?
Sounds like someone's been to counselling.
Real life ---
What the <beep> is tha t<beep>ing smell
My beer
Wtf you have 25 gallons you just brewed this month
yeah, but they're all different
who cares, no more until that 's done
<tucking tail between legs> yes dear.
That's how reality works.
That's how reality works.
Lol nice, what color is the sky in your world? purple with yellow polk-a-dots?
Sounds like someone's been to counselling.
Real life ---
What the <beep> is tha t<beep>ing smell
My beer
Wtf you have 25 gallons you just brewed this month
yeah, but they're all different
who cares, no more until that 's done
<tucking tail between legs> yes dear.
That's how reality works.
Sounds like you have two options here. Divorce or brew outside. If you go the divorce route make sure she doesn't take your brewing equipment.
Lol nice, what color is the sky in your world? purple with yellow polk-a-dots?
Sounds like someone's been to counselling.
Real life ---
What the <beep> is tha t<beep>ing smell
My beer
Wtf you have 25 gallons you just brewed this month
yeah, but they're all different
who cares, no more until that 's done
<tucking tail between legs> yes dear.
That's how reality works.
Yikes. Glad that's not my life.
They should smell exactly the same?????????? Does not make sense.
Once again, Yooper's wisdom rises above. Just tell her; "Yooper said it's best that you stop breathing."Never failed, at 3:15, child number one would come in "Hi mom! OMG, it stinks in here!!! You BREWED today! Ewwwww!" Five minutes later, the routine would be repeated by child number two.
Never mind that their hockey/gym clothes/basketball shoes had enough stench to knock out a small army. I told them that I had a solution- that in my home, they just didn't have to breathe on Wednesdays. When they had their own home, they could breath every day if they wanted, since they would then be paying for their own air.
Wait, isn't 7 years some sort of milestone in a marriage? Like if you don't take your nads back by then they will, by common law, become hers?gclay said:...after 7 years...
It's a give and take marriage, I give she takes after 7 years there's gotta be a few things she's given in to.... hmmm my $4000 robotics adventure a few years ago, Model rocketry where I almost blew up our son, constant computer upgrades.
I give in where I have to, I usually get what I want. We all like the smell of the mash, just the hops smell like as she puts it wet dog food.
I guess it's time to let this thread die, I'll just stick to "not being a man" Man card given, shredded, burned and buried in dog crap.
Gerald
I hate to say it but I'd tell her to POUND SAND until she learns how to treat you like a man.
Fortunately no one can revoke your MAN CARD, only you can give it away.
As for her having my balls, I choose the battles I can win. I wonder out of all the "balls" replies how many are actually married or in a long term relationship? Just a question.
Gerald
.......................... maybe i am missing something but how does the smell that bothered her change between extract and all-grain? I am guessing the boils is what "stunk" up the house (with awesomeness).
You have to boil using extract. I don't get it lol. Suck it up and take the heat from the wife.
Revvy said:Am I the only one who wants to know how he almost blew up his son with model rocketry?
She's usually pretty straight forward with what she wants or says. I guess I Could Have bought her flowers, It was our anniversary.
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