Just to follow up, I went to my LHBS and created an all grain/BIAB setup based on what I'm looking for (a citrus/grapefruit IPA, 2.5g). This is what we came up with for ingredients:
5# US 2 row
8oz carared
8oz carapils
5ml hop resin (60 min)
1oz amarillo (10 min)
1/4 tsp irish moss (10 min)
1oz citra (5 min)
1oz amarillo (flameout)
Safale US-05
On brew day, I got 2g of water to strike temp (172 degrees), then mashed for 60 minutes (this was my first time mashing, and I was able to keep it between 154-157 temp in an oven that was primed but off). Did the iodine test and it came up fine. Then boiled with above additions. Chilled to 75 degrees, pitched rehydrated yeast and now its happily fermenting away. It was down to 1.75g so I topped it up to 2.5g. I used a refractometer for the first time and got a Brix reading of 15 (1.061 OG), but I think that might have been because I forgot to take a sample until I had poured just about all of the wort into the fermenter so I took a sample from the bottom of the pot.
Incidentally, and this is probably a "duh" comment, but wow, wort chillers are amazing! On my first brew, I thought I'd chill by nestling the pot into the snow, and it took forever (close to 3 hours) to chill because the snow ended up insulating the pot. Luckily it didn't get any infections. My second time, I used an ice bath, and it took about 40 minutes. This time it was about 10 minutes.