rdwj
Well-Known Member
Kevin Dean said:I disagree with the entire premise of this statement for one reason. Alcohol decreases inhibitions but it doesn't change morality. Being drunk has been used as an excuse for beating and raping people. Even more so, some people claim that "hard" drugs like heroine and crack "cause" people to do bad things.
If you agree with that statement, ask yourself how drunk you need to be before you'd toss your grandmother's salad.
Alcohol (and other drugs) make people do things that they are unlikely to do sober but they will NEVER do things they would never do. This is why I support the legalization of ALL drugs rather than the criminalization of some. If any drug "makes" people do things then we DO need to ban them all including alcohol that we all so strongly believe is a wonderful thing when respected.
If his wife will cheat on him drunk, she'll do it sober. It might just take a little longer.
I've done things because I was drunk that I wouldn't have done sober. I haven't done anything really stupid in a LONG time, but I have done them. I'm to the point now where I have a wife and kids to think about, so I have more to lose than I did when I was younger. Because of that, I avoid putting myself into situations where bad things can happen.
I don't think I'd cheat on my wife, but sucking down tropical drinks in a hot tub with bikini clad, horny girls would sure tempt me and I KNOW that. It would tempt just about ANY heterosexual guy. Because I KNOW I can be tempted, I make a conscious effort NOT to put myself in situations where tempting things are likely to happen.
Singles resorts ARE a tempting environment - I think we can ALL agree on that. Why put yourself in a tempting situation like that? ...especially when you KNOW your single friends are going to be looking to have the type of fun you shouldn't be involved in? There are plenty of less tempting things you can do with your single friends if that's truly what you want to do. If you let the woman you love run off to a place like that with your APPROVAL, you're just asking for trouble.