I started out 7-8 years ago doing AG on a B3 rig doing 10 gallons, so I started out bigger than most and doing AG from the get go (and fly sparging too, just how I learned). Having said that I got back into it a couple years ago, simple 5g setup doing extract. I got tired of running out much as you have. I sat down and thought about it, ended up getting a kegging setup first because bottling sucks and takes a lot of time. This helped, as extract I could do two batches a day easy. I then got a 30g kettle off Instawares ($115) and did 20 gallon partial mash batches while building the MLT (120qt cooler), between getting it planned and built I bet I did 3-4 20 gallon partial mashes, so it can be done. I was using a 50 foot IC, this I would NOT recommend, it takes forever. Next step was getting back to AG, used two 5g HLTs and swapped between them to fly sparge, not recommended, pain. Got pumps to make things easier. Got another 30 gallon HLT, much less pain. I just use 4 6.5 gallon carboys per batch, but I am going towards conicals. Check out Norwesco inductor tanks, several threads on people using inductor tanks to make plastic conicals. In other words, it can be done. I will say, be very diligent on brew day and triple check your recipes. Also, order grain in bulk with some local brewers, saves you a ton. Get your sparging down to maximize your efficiency, this will save a lot of grain per batch. Obviously learning how to do AG and get good efficiency would be better served with 10g batches, which you CAN do in the 30g+ kettles. In other words, you can get a big kettle and do extract and keg it while building the AG setup. It IS the reverse of what most brewers are going to tell you.