Im 39 never had my own kids,Just got married 2 months ago,my wife Ive been with each other for almost nine years now,and never thought Id get married she has 2 boys 10&12 now which Ive basically raised so far. JUst found out today she is now pregnant! I was shocked and a bit scared and tripped out at first but now I just feel joy and anticipation/excitement of new plans. After being "carefull" about having kids for the last 8 years-it shure didnt take more than a few times for it to actually happen which we decided to try(kind-of). And in the time it could have happendI thought the odds were against me anyway,guess it was meant to be. Guess Ill be driving my 230000 miled car still for the next few years as I was saving for a downpayment on a new one soon-guess not now.Couldnt get her on my insurance in the 30 day period after getting married which wasnt discussed with me with my job.Grr.Hopefully she has it in Jan when I can sign her back on. I cant really just whip out 15 thousand dollars in a year or two. F hospitals and doctors anyway you dont always need them,right? I waste much money on unneaded (so-called) health insurance anyway when I really only believe in wholeistic doctors for the most part. Maybe its time I learn what the ef to do,hell they did it all the time back in the day without hospitals,why succome?