I want to try two chicks at the same time.

[BADS197]

I need to know the stress level of maintaining two relationships at the same time. Is it worth it?

It's not worth it.

Too much stress.

I'm living with my gf after leaving my wife. I was leading a double life until it all came crashing down on me.

Don't do it.

In hindsight I'd have never done it.

I was actually married and having a relationship of some flavor with two other women in the same apartment complex.

It got so complicated I think I've damaged my brain from the stress.

If you feel you need to play the field, leave the girl your with. You think they will be screwed up in the head after they find out your with someone else... your mental health will suffer and possibly physical health.

I think I've become a little more crazy than I used to be.

 

[Melana]

Cheating is cheating, and lying is lying. F*cking around on your significant other is unequivocally wrong, even if she's keeping you sexually repressed.

So, in other words, it's time to be honest with yourself and with her, and have some real words...

+1!

Have you asked her yet if she would be into the idea?

 

[Homercidal]

If this other girl was your GF's friend, then you could pull a Costanza!

 

[schneemann]

My wife and I are both crushing on the same porn star. Unfortunately, I don't think she's for hire, and if she is I doubt I could afford her day rate.

Unless its a mega star, you'd be surprised at how cheap they can be.

 

[bernerbrau]

Seinfeld said it best:

JERRY: What are you talking about? I'm not gonna do it.

GEORGE: You're not gonna do it? What do you mean, You're not gonna do it?

JERRY: I can't. I'm not an orgy guy.

GEORGE: Are you crazy? This is like discovering Plutonium ... by accident.

JERRY: Don't you know what it means to become an orgy guy? It changes everything. I'd have to dress different. I'd have to act different. I'd have to grow a mustache and get all kinds of robes and lotions and I'd need a new bedspread and new curtains I'd have to get thick carpeting and weirdo lighting. I'd have to get new friends. I'd have to get orgy friends. ... Naw, I'm not ready for it.

GEORGE: If only something like that could happen to me.

JERRY: Oh, shut up you couldn't do it either.

GEORGE: I know.

 

[Homercidal]

LOVE that scene. Especially when Jerry turns it down and it blows George's mind.

"WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU'RE NOT GOING TO DO IT!?"

 

[superfluent]

One of my childhood friends is a really good pickup artist (my description). I don't know how he does it (and I don't understand why he want to subject himself to it, but) he has been juggling multiple simultaneous relationships the past several years (probably 50+ girlfriends).

He is insanely smooth with girls and once he told me that the cardinal rule for a good relationship is to make sure they understand what they are getting themselves into. If you don't want an exlusive relationship you must make shure she understands that *before* committing to a relationship.

Once into a relationship it is extremely difficult for a partner to accept what you're contemplating if you havn't been honnest with it from the beginnig.

If your GF had an affair (or multiple) or said she's getting herself a lover, how would you feel about it?

H

 

[Jeff48]

Please try it and report back to the rest of us as soon as you heal up....

 

[gratus fermentatio]

Don't get upset you judgmental pricks. And don't lie to me. I know some of you did it at some point. Some are probably doing it right now. Yeah, you, mister multiple girlfriends, talk to me

So anyway, I got a flat in big city and the GF live 100km from here. We usually see each other on the weekend. Our relationship is post-passion, which I like, more serene. Yet, I think I'm bored and need "discovery". Don't misunderstand me, she's fine, really. She'll do anything. I'm not complaining, I just need to expand the playing field, you know? I'm bored!

And before you circle jerk bastards advise me: I don't like porn, especially modern porn, those bald chicks... that stuff make me soft! Beside, I can shine the stick anytime, and I do, but those are two different things.

I need to know the stress level of maintaining two relationships at the same time. Is it worth it?

More women = less money & less sleep.