Hubby's "online" friend arrived today to stay with us for a couple days, the guy brought his wife along. They are staying 2 nights and it's a guy that hubby met through a tractor forum he belongs to. Hubby seems a little aggravated by the visit even though he is the one who invited them!! He says to me, an hour before their arrival, "what are you doing??" (I was chatting with my daughter on Facebook) "they will be here in an hour!" Then he says to me, "You have to get ready for them!". I'm thinking, this is your friend, you invited him here... Then it sunk in that I have to get their room ready, figure out what I am going to feed them, etc... So what do I do? I snap to it and get everything ready... And it goes even further than this, the expectations, hubby says "you need to figure out where you are going to take them/how you are going to entertain them if the weather isn't good enough for the beach. Forecast is calling for rain. The beach is my go-to place, months ago when he said he wanted to invite his friend and his friend's wife here in the spring, I said, "Oh, sure, I'll take them to the beach". I love the beach and know all the good places to go.
This is what I mean by just reacting to life, I don't know what each day will throw at me. One thing for hubby to tell his friends, "oh, stop in the next time you are in Florida!" He runs this past me and I'm like, "Oh, sure, whatever". But 2 days before their arrival, I hear that they might be coming here, then the day they arrive, I'm asked, "Why don't you have everything ready for them????"
I will tend to his friends and do what I gotta do, but I also went ahead and booked a trip(for just me) to go see my friends and family and I booked it one way. I'll book my return trip when I'm good and ready to come back. Seriously, I booked my trip to see my family and friends as a one-way ticket.