I don't know why I tell you all so much but I do.
I'm leaving for Hawaii day after tomorrow to visit my wife. We have been apart for the last 2 years, 4 months and 17 days. We have spent weeks together during that time here or there. But day to day with out her I'm just a shell.
I'm moving to Hawaii by the end of the year or sooner. Going to take a big leap of faith that I find a job there. My wife is from Hawaii and moved to the mainland with me while I was active duty military. Second marriages for both of us, no offspring between us but we both have children from previous marriages.
Why we been apart so long? I was suppose to get a job in Hawaii after I retired from the military. It didn't work out. Some bad stuff happened after that and I couldn't leave CA. I'm at a point now I'm ready to take a big leap of faith.
I spend quite a bit of my time on HBT now and do enjoy the friendship and camaraderie and support I've found here. Many very wonderful people on this site.
This sounds a bit demanding and probably is. Please send good vibes, a silent prayer, for Jan and I to be back together again. Healthy, safe and a happy life together.
Dan