The easiest way to do this is to target the Original Gravity (OG) of your honey and water regardless of volume prior to pitching yeast. (9 litres or 9 gallons or 9 quarts) In this case an OG of 1.060 should get you close. See how i got there below.
The math works out to this1.060 OG minus 1.000 FG = 0.060 and 0.060 times 131.25 = roughly 7.9 ABV. If all the available sugar in the honey is consumed by the yeast.
To estimate the amount of honey required to get a gravity of 1.060 per total volume of water plus honey of 1 gallon. (4 liters ) Water is 1.000 and each pound of honey (450 grams) contributes roughly 0.035 gravity points. So 60 divided by 35 = roughly 1.7 pounds (770 grams).
While knowing this there are a lot of variables, not all honey is the same. Your yeast may not consume all the available sugar etc. This at best is a rough estimate but should get you close.
Is 8% ABV the upper end for a hydromel? Thats open for debate but generally speaking thats what i hear and read most folks hold to.
Good luck, how do you intend to make it carbonated?