Read the thread (yes it's huge but a lot of good info here), make notes while you do so. For instance there's some instructions which are replaced by those coming later.
Get yourself a Raspberry Pi and play around with it some. The project assumes you are at least passingly familiar with working with a Pi. There are a lot of beginners and "for Dummies" books out there. You will also learn here that the technology out-strips the documentation fairly quickly so a secondary goal here is to get familiar with Googling for the answer.
When you get your Pi, learn things like networking it at your home, accessing it from another computer (both X/RDP and SSH). Set up and play with the web server. These are things you need to be able to at least converse upon when you start the project.
Understand the difference between a microcomputer and a microcontroller. This will lead to more Googling, but spend some time doing it.
Finally, approach this only when you have time and patience. You can't just pick up the phone and call one of us for help, so in many cases it's going to take starting over again from the top and making sure you do everything right. When you do ask for help, include log messages whenever possible. If you don't know what or where a log message is, there's more learning to do.
There's a pretty steep learning curve up front, but this is a small project and easily accomplished if you follow some directions. You could probably pull it off with none of the knowledge I just mentioned as a matter of fact, but having it will make your life a whole lot easier when something
doesn't work as it's supposed to.
Good luck!!