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... Not to mention this guy has a trustfund and I have to work for my money...

:off:

If I accidentally get rich and/or have kids, they won't get SHIZNIT from me without earning it. No offense to trust fund kiddies on here, but if you got everything you ever had b/c your PARENTS knew how to work their asses off, how are you supposed to ever learn to appreciate anything?

If I find out a friend has a trust fund, that's *almost* grounds to no longer be friends. It would be a warning signal, regardless.
 
I give away my beer and let people drink from my kegs but it has to be to a limit. One of my friends came over a few weeks ago and we killed 1/2 keg together in a few hours ;)

I think I will ask those that are interested in my beer & homebrewing to buy a recipe kit and help me brew. I will also get the person involved in cleaning the bottles and bottling. At the end of all this the person can take 1 case with them.
 
I have been brewing for just over a year and have probably given away more than 1/2 of what I have made to friends and coworkers. Many of these people have been very generous with their time to help me and the wife move two weeks prior to our first baby being born. I viewed my giving away beer as a pay it forward type of thing but now I can certainly see other viewpoints on expectations of beer gifts. Now that I have gotten into all-grain brewing I have the costs of beer down to 50-75 cents per bottle but the time to get this made can really add up just as much as the cost of imporving your equipment.

Bottom Line: "This makes me really appreciate all of the advice and feedback I have gotten from other members on this forum."
 
I haven't run into this issue yet, but I plan on asking for a couple bucks in donations for future beers. Right now I see my beer as a way to becoming the popular guy in an apartment complex filled with single college girls. :)

Too bad ASU is losing its reputation as a den debauchery... I think they just need more beer... call me up if you need any help getting them back on track!
 
I love giving my beer to people. Not just my homebrew, but any commercial beers I have as well. On the 4th, I had a $14 375mL bottle of RR consecration and gave most of it away to people at our party, and had just a bit left for myself. I really just want other people to be able to feel the same way I do about beer and experience it how I do.

My last 2 batches (2 gallon batches - a special bitter and an IPA) each netted about 18 bottles a piece. I may have drank about 6-8 total out of the 36, and the IPA was really tasty. I love hearing that people enjoy my beer and I'm always up for suggestions (which is odd, because I don't take criticism well in any other aspect of my life).

None of the people I give my beer to are greedy about it, but I can understand how it would anger me if they were.
 
I've been lucky so far. My 2 best friends ALWAYS bring at least a sixer of some very good micro brew when they come visit. They drink what they want from the beer fridge and even hint at what they think I should make next and teh sixer is left in the fridge for me to enjoy at my leisure.

Parties seem to be a different story but I don't mind.
 
I have a couple of friends that I often give beer. They also sometimes 'pay' me to brew a batch for them. More correctly they pay for everything and I brew it. I usually keep a 6-pack for 'quality control.' It comes out even as far as I'm concerned.
 
I've promised away most of my first batch already, 2 more weeks left to carb. Sent 12-12oz to my cousins out of state(trying to get them into brewing too) and set 12-22oz bottles aside for myself. The other 16 12oz are going to friends from work with the understanding that the first ones free, but they'll need to donate(labor, food, bottles, something) if they want more.
 
Wierd...I've got friends already offering to buy me ingredients! Next week a buddy is bringing over a kit and we're gonna brew it up for him. We'll no doubt kill several brews in the process.

He's thinking of getting into homebrewing. He really wants to build a still. But he's afraid of the whole prison thing... Homebrewing may be his alternative. LOL
 
I usually keep a 6-pack for 'quality control.' It comes out even as far as I'm concerned.

No way in hell I would spend 6 hours one day, and at least an hour another day two weeks later, just for a six pack and the smiles of my friends. I guess I'm an a-hole.

Remember the whole "Give a man a fish..." thing? They are taking advantage.
 
No way in hell I would spend 6 hours one day, and at least an hour another day two weeks later, just for a six pack and the smiles of my friends. I guess I'm an a-hole.

Remember the whole "Give a man a fish..." thing? They are taking advantage.

I made a batch of banana wine for a buddy. he owns the bar where I get all of my bottles from PLUS whatever I eat or drink ( best wings I have ever had and the pizza is kick ass PLUS he lets me bring my own beer and drink it if I want to) is half price. he payed for the ingredients and when I bottled it yesterday he got annoyed that I wouldn't keep half for myself. THATS THE KIND OF PEOPLE I ENJOY SHARING WITH!
 
I give 20oz bottles away to friends occasionally, but if anyone wants any more than that they're expected to pay for a batch of ingredients. If they come over and help me brew so I can teach them how to do it they get the whole thing minus a few bottles for my trouble. If they want ME to brew it for them I keep 1/2 the batch.

I used to have a standing arrangement with neighbors for that. I put them on the honor system but my little jar never quite added up to what it was supposed to so now I have the arrangement above.

Word. I do the same thing with teaching. My new policy is that I don't touch anything during the process, however, unless I absolutely have to demonstrate something or it's a two-man job. It might take more time, but otherwise your friend/student doesn't learn anything.

Generally I hand out 22s to everyone I know on birthdays, holidays, or any special occasion. I've got no prob donating a keg of cider or extract brew for a party every so often. I'd like it if people threw me some money, but I don't care if they don't, since I don't do this often enough to worry about it.
 
I like to share with those that I know appreciate it. Hell I'll give half a batch away to someone who really shows thanks and does not take it for granted.

My wife and I have had a woman and her husband (friends of my wife) over to our house before and they drink like fish. Never a thank you or anything for consuming a sh1tload of beer off my taps. This happened twice.

Then one day the woman says to my wife (at work): "When are we coming over for free beer again?"

FREE BEER? WTF? After hearing that I laid down the law and declared that my beer will no longer be available to this couple ever. We haven't had them over since.

This lady is amazing.

Even in really primitive cultures, places where fire is "advanced technology", people know better. They will tell you that the woman should have said, "We will cook a pig. You must come to our hut and eat the pig with us."

The people who are horrified about "moral decay" would probably not choose this as an example, but this is exactly what they are referring to.
 
This lady is amazing.

Even in really primitive cultures, places where fire is "advanced technology", people know better. They will tell you that the woman should have said, "We will cook a pig. You must come to our hut and eat the pig with us."

The people who are horrified about "moral decay" would probably not choose this as an example, but this is exactly what they are referring to.

Not so much what I would describe as "moral decay" as a breakdown in social conventions, in this case reciprocity. Social cement or "glue" is formed in a number of ways, but the form of exchange termed reciprocity is one of the most basic, and found in a myriad of forms.

Look up the potlatch feasts of the tribes of the Northwest coast of North America, and the custom of Japanese upon any occasion to bring gifts to someone, perhaps bento (prepared boxes of food) or fruit. For business travelers, this has been elevated to an online industry, whereby a person on a business trip can order gifts (and from the region they visited) to be delivered when they return from the trip for them to distribute to coworkers.

In Japan, this reciprocal giving has been elevated by tradition to giri, which would roughly translate as "social obligations." At worst, and in a curious parallel to the Kwakiutl and other Indian tribes, it becomes a contest whereby the recipient must always reciprocate with a better and more expensive gift. In the Kwakiutl potlatches, things could spiral out of control and end in murder or even warfare.

Naturally, the marriage customs of many cultures are nothing more than a form of reciprocity, and even the Kula Ring trade of some Pacific Islands is just a form of delayed reciprocity.
 
I had a friend ask me for 2 6 packs of my dry stout for his superbowl party.I told him no problem and come get them when he was ready for them, I was working when he came and my wife let him take all 3 cases i had bottled up:mad:
On top of that my dry/irish stout is only 2.8abv but has a good taste, I like it for a session beer. My old friend bitched it took to much of the beer to get him and his buddies drunk
He never got **** again and i started useing kegs after that.
 
One of the people I was complaining about JUST contacted me asking if I had any plum wine since she had a friend who really likes it. I told her to tell em it is plums...water.. sugar ..yeast.
 
This is my hobby. I choose to brew and I'll share from time to time. But if someone wants a large amount, then pony up!
 
Having just finished my first batch ever, which turned out well I might add, I have been planning to give some out to some co-workers and friends...mainly because they thought there was no way I could make beer at home and was crazy to try. One co-worker insisted that they get at least 5 bottles, for they deserved it. That being said, I think this person shall be getting one of the bottles that are half filled that I was going to be used as a test bottle. 5 bottles...psh, yeah right.
 
Any of my friends that insist on getting my beer get the privilege of me dragging my feet to get it to them so long I've already drank it all, and when they complain I hand them the recipe.
 
Most of my friends are not heavy drinkers. I recently turned a couple of friends onto craft beer (they are major wine drinkers), and when they learned that I had started to brew they got pretty excited about it. They wanted to come over and watch/help brew. The next thing I knew they bought me 2 cases of new empty bottles, a bunch of used brew equipment they found at a garage sale, and even built me an immersion chiller!

Those are the kind of friends you keep!

introduce me to your friends :D
 
Having just finished my first batch ever, which turned out well I might add, I have been planning to give some out to some co-workers and friends...mainly because they thought there was no way I could make beer at home and was crazy to try. One co-worker insisted that they get at least 5 bottles, for they deserved it. That being said, I think this person shall be getting one of the bottles that are half filled that I was going to be used as a test bottle. 5 bottles...psh, yeah right.

Half filled bottles = flat. :(
 

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