Very good point on the handle. I kept an eye on my flames yesterday and they don't get near the edge of my pot so I'll be safe for the most part, but definitely need to watch that.
Yea, I opted for the extra fender washers just to make sure that my fittings would make a tight seal with my nipple size.
During the transfer to the kettle, I was expecting a ton of hop particulate since the valve is near the bottom of the kettle (and I had about 14 oz in there) but I barely got any until the very very end of the xfer. I was stoked. I installed the valve so a half gallon would be left in the kettle after xfer. This apparently works great for getting it off the break and hops. I can't wait for my next brew! Now to decide what to make… hefe?