This post strikes a cord with me.
Homemade beer has a bad rap. So people are dis interested before they even know about you brewing it. Actually, its probably worse than that... they probably don't want to taste your beer and if it tastes different from the regular Coors/Miller/Bud that they drink then it must be wrong.
My wife's brother in law's father makes his own beer. From cheap kits. Without boiling. And judging from the state of their house, sanitation is a foreign concept.
I can take a sip without wincing. And believe me, I've tried.
And why read a book about something that you can learn from old wives' tales ? After all they've been brewing beer since before we can remember. Do you think they boiled it back then ? And why buy fancy ingredients or go all grain when you can buy the $10 kit at the supermarket ?
And then I find people to pretty apathetic about things in general. People are well contented to sit around, eat, drive their vehicles, play video games, shop and complain.
Put together some stuff to brew beer ? Read ? Learn ? Wash things ? Bottle ? Man, that sounds like work ! You must really love beer ! And then they wonder why they are bored with their lives !
I don't have any friends that brew. But I have several that sure like my brews. As does my wife, who, incidentally, is happy to see me start brewing again. Something about a brown ale I used to make and then there was that wheat beer... and she isn't even really much of a beer drinker ! I take that as a compliment.
I think I've got a few friends that are going to brew with me. What that means is on brew day they will show up and do some cleaning and watching in exchange for $20 and a carboy full of wort.
You get out of life what you put into it. I have a couple hobbies. Brewing is my only "housebound" hobby. I'm happy to have it truthfully. I've met a couple good guys doing it. I learned a few things. I takes up as much of my idle time as I want it to. It gives me a lot of pride. Other than the building part, its a complete change from what I usually do. It gives my mind a rest. There is something soothing about tending a kettle and the aroma of hops and boiling wort. Heck, I don't even mind bottling sometimes !