Hi.
Yes, bitter is not the best word to describe it. "astringency" seems more adequate
I make beer from beer kits as I started only a few months ago and it seemed the easiest way to learn.
I used 1,5kg Dark DME on a Coopers Irish Stout and on a Brewferm Abdji beer kit and it turn bad because of the flavor. Now I am not sure which kind of beer should improve with Dark DME and also how much portion I should use...
Some kits are simply better than others. For the sake of ease, not best flavor, some kit manufacturers cut corners by providing
hopped extracts in a can (which can taste horrible from what I gather) and the balance in either sugar (no flavor) and/or dry malt extract (=spraymalt) which is better. Most recipes you'll find here on HBT (or Brewer's Friend, BYO, etc.) will include steeped specialty grains for color and flavor and the fermentables made up of light or golden Dry Malt Extract (DME).
As @Flars said, a recipe for the bad tasting beer will help to spot the problem.
Truly, assembling a recipe from "raw" ingredients is as simple as buying a couple bags of light or golden DME, a few ounces to a pound (or 2) of Specialty Malt (for steeping), hops, and yeast at your local brew store. Stay away from "magic" cans and unless you do Belgian styles there is little or no sugar involved.
I've only used one kit, which was the steeping grains and DME variety and it turned out quite well, at least for that time and my limited knowledge.
Now after a few years brewing and reading Palmer's "How to Brew," scouring HBT (and other sources) I would say the instructions were OK, but not great. They let me boil all the extract for an hour (not good), rack to a secondary (totally unneeded), there was no mentioning of keeping fermentation temps lower, rather than higher, and the omission of a dry hop (it was a Pale Ale). I went to the brew store next and bought the basic ingredients and brewed recipes from Palmer's book and others I found online. The rest is history.