OK...Have them all except one for a test bottle in a locked down plastic case... If I bottled yesterday , Sat, Feb 11th...how many days should I wait before I check them out ?
Can I open them all up then recap? Will that mess up the beer ?
Typically, we go 3 weeks at 70F to bottle carbonate batches. You could check the one after a week, or two, to see where it's at.
As for opening and recapping them, that's a tricky item. For one thing, you could end up with under-carbonated beer that way. For another, you could get something else to fall in while you're doing that, giving you infected/contaminated bottles (which then blow up)...
I would opt to simply test a bottle after a week, or two, (and then every day, or two after) and then decide if/when the carbonation is finished. IF it is finished, and not over-carbonated, get them into a fridge (all of them). That's probably their best chance for survival at this point.
Next time, use a calculation tool/site for how much sugar to add. I wouldn't even use all that's included in a kit since they simply toss in pre-measured sugar packs with the kits. Same amount for an IPA or stout/porter. Which means if the IPA is carbonated to style, the stout/porter will be over carbonated and not taste as great as it could.
BTW, next time you want to brew a batch stronger, instead of concentrating the sugars more via a longer boil, or using less water, use more sugars in the batch. Use more grain, or extract, to get your OG goal. It's a much smarter method, especially if you don't modify any of the other aspects of the brew. In either case, if you didn't alter your hop additions, you're not going to get the same contribution there (the IBU's will be lower due to the increased OG).