I can't stand wheat beers so I guess I'll never be a "real" brewer.
It's almost as ridiculous as saying you can't be a real brewer unless you brew ag, or you grow your own hops, or malt your own grain, or develop your own strain of yeast, or can do a double decoction while standing on your head, preforming brain surgery and singing the theme from "the way we were" in shwahili.
Brew what makes you happy, brew HOW it makes you happy, this is a hobby for chrisakes.
Except for maybe lagering which requires a little more technique, and some of the more step intensive processes like step mashing and decocting, brewing a wheat beer is no different that brewing and ipa, or a stout, or a double imperial Ipa with a twist of lime lime.....especially if you're an extract brewer...it's following a recipe, so how is brewing an America Wheat any more "brewer like" as any other style? Or more challenging to brew? Even in AG an american wheat is no more difficult that any other beer style to brew. It's grainbill + time + temp in mashtun, then boil, add hops, cool and pitch yeast.
One would argue that the most difficult style to nail is the American Light Lager, because there's no real margin for error. But everyone's not gonna want to brew a budlight clone or something similar to that style.
But what we "should" do???? We should be able to make great beer. or at least make beer that makes up happy, that we and our friends enjoy drinking.