Well your flavoring hops are key to knowing which hop. I find about 100% of the time i let mine sit after a month or few more, they are more refined and balanced like in terms of taste. You will see what i mean when you try them every few weeks letting them conditon. I dont consider my beer ready until a few months in the bottle but if you like how they are then and there at that time then drink them otherwise let them condition some.
Its possible you overflavored if you were just guessing your own recipe. I think it would become less noticeable over time,almost everythhing seems to mellow out for me if i think i have some harshness or a strong pronounced character.
Your yeast you used could have intensified hop flavors too, there are yeasts that let the hops-character shine more than others, same with your water profile.
Could also be:just what you ate for supper making it seem taste that way.
If its young still it could be a cidery flavor that maybe your refeering to( that would mean its still young) but im willing to be its your hops, if you know which ones exactly they have different characteristics that many of us will know of. Also use John Palmers How to Brew online, its free and a good reference for brewing.