Extracts will never yield a very light color. It is just the nature of how they are processed.
Fortunately this is no longer true. The Pale extract we sell has a lovibond rating of 1. Yes 1. 2-row has a lovibond rating of 1.8. There is no reason you can't make a very light colored beer using extract. There are many pale extracts that are very dark that many homebrew store still sell as pale. Muntons or Alexanders for example.
Forrest