Originally Posted by schweaty
Hit the nail on the head right there Yooper. I'm sure it will be difficult for you at first but think of it this way. You're young, you brew your own beer, and now you've learned what kind of woman to stay away from. Maybe you need to find a woman who's experienced a lot in life and is ready to settle down. I went through a ton of terrible relationships to learn what I wanted in a spouse. When I found her, I snatched her up and the two of us are very happy with our marriage, three years and going strong. Good things take time, heck I waited until I was 29 to get married, granted she was 19
I understand what you're saying, and yoops replies were excellent.. but 'still'.. Both of them stood before the alter and made a vow before God to stick it out, till death separates them, for better or for worse... (assuming a traditional wedding)
This is the 'worse'... My advice is for the both of them to do 'everything' in their power to try and survive this and believe that there is a 'better' in the future if they work for it, and are committed to it...
If they find it, it will be worth it.. And yeah, get counseling ASAP...