Bedlam
Well-Known Member
Fellow brewers,
I am (temporarily) handing over the controls for this posting to the Evil StepChild, who is 16.5 years of age and is in need of objective opinions on a difficult decision. I told her that this is truly a group that doesn't hold back any punches.
and now, I introduce the Evil One:
Basically, here is the situation: my stepmother, a professor, gets a discount to several universities in Tennessee. This is excellent because I am rapidly approaching college age and also in desperate need of a way to pay for college without collecting too much debt. The college I have picked out has an excellent program in Journalism and Electronic Media, which is the area I want to study. Good school, good program, pretty huge discount. What could go wrong?
My mother, that's what.
Because I live in Texas most of the time with my mother, my mom wants me to remain in Texas. To go to a college in Texas would mean for me to go to a school with a subpar journalism program and/or collect large amounts of debt. Let me point out that it's not my mother who will be paying for my college education; it'll be me. The loans I take out to pay for education won't be in my mother's name; they'll be in mine. Most importantly, though, the education I receive won't be supporting my mother for the rest of her life; it will be supporting me for the rest of mine.
Right now, I have to make a choice: (a) be close to mommy and collect lots of debt, or (b) Move far away from my mother, live close to my dad and stepmother, get an excellent education, and perhaps even escape from college debt free.
For me, the choice is obvious, but it might not seem so black and white to you. What do you think? Who's right? My mother or me?
I am (temporarily) handing over the controls for this posting to the Evil StepChild, who is 16.5 years of age and is in need of objective opinions on a difficult decision. I told her that this is truly a group that doesn't hold back any punches.
and now, I introduce the Evil One:
Basically, here is the situation: my stepmother, a professor, gets a discount to several universities in Tennessee. This is excellent because I am rapidly approaching college age and also in desperate need of a way to pay for college without collecting too much debt. The college I have picked out has an excellent program in Journalism and Electronic Media, which is the area I want to study. Good school, good program, pretty huge discount. What could go wrong?
My mother, that's what.
Because I live in Texas most of the time with my mother, my mom wants me to remain in Texas. To go to a college in Texas would mean for me to go to a school with a subpar journalism program and/or collect large amounts of debt. Let me point out that it's not my mother who will be paying for my college education; it'll be me. The loans I take out to pay for education won't be in my mother's name; they'll be in mine. Most importantly, though, the education I receive won't be supporting my mother for the rest of her life; it will be supporting me for the rest of mine.
Right now, I have to make a choice: (a) be close to mommy and collect lots of debt, or (b) Move far away from my mother, live close to my dad and stepmother, get an excellent education, and perhaps even escape from college debt free.
For me, the choice is obvious, but it might not seem so black and white to you. What do you think? Who's right? My mother or me?