You don't even need to break the packet and wait for it to swell if you are making a starter, the nutrient pack is just to jump start the yeast, but the starter will be doing that as well as reproducing.
I would take a couple bottles of malta, bring it to a boil, cool it, put it in your sanitized growler, cut open the yeast pouch, pour it in the growler, cover with tinfoil, shake the heck out of it for a couple minutes and let it do it's thing til time to pitch the yeast tomorrow. Maybe in the morning, boil up a bottle or two more of malta, and add that to the growler, and let the yeast reproduce more through out the day while you're brewing, and then come afternoon/evening when it's time to pitch the yeast you'll have a decent starter.