On mine, there's a small bump (that you have to look at almost at an angle to see) just above where the bottle starts to taper up to the neck. It's at the top of that bump on mine. I have the measurements written down at home (I measured with a tape measure from the table up to 1, 2, 3 gallons and so on). But, it may be different on different carboys.
What I did was pour a gallon in, mark it, pour another in, and so on. My only problem is that the permanent marker rubs off somewhat when cleaning/handling, and I have to reapply it which gets annoying. (one of the reasons I measured! - so I wouldn't have to do the time-taking, pour-and-mark method again!)