The Pol
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Some of you may recall a post about a year ago where my wife and I scored a victory in court while my sons mother was trying her best not to allow him to come to my home. A year later, and many games later... this is my story.
We are heading to court for the second time in 2008... I was awarded long distance patenting time for summers since we live 5-6 hours apart and thus weekend visits are not even healthy for my son (we moved for my job). His mother is trying to block my ability to have him in my home for half the summer, thinking it is detrimental to his well being. This is why we are returning to court on April 1st...
Tonight I was told that my home is not safe.
We do not love my son.
His teacher is going to testify in court that coming to my home is not in his best interest.
My PARENTS are going to testify that he should not be allowed to come to my home.
Etc...
Keep in mind that his teacher and I email on a weekly basis concerning my sons progress and I recieve all of his weeky school updates from her. Also keep in mind that his teacher advocated allowing my son to even email me from school so that we can also communicate that way, in addition to telephone contact. Keep in mind that the email thing, his mother does not want to allow? Why?
My home is not safe, although his mother, nor any social worker have visited our home, let alone while my son is here visiting. This is a recurring statement that is never very specific.
We do not love my son... which of course is why we go to court and fight this rediculous crap every six months, and why I gleefully pay child support. It is also why his bedroom on our new home, that he has not yet had a chance to visit, is completely decorated BEFORE my own... yup, I hate that brat!
My parents are going to testify, along with his teachers? At this point I called her bluff and said, well I am recording this call... so I certainly hope that all of these people show up, otherwise after listening to this the judge will think you are only trying to intimidate and harass me. He will also know that you are a liar...
At this point she hung up abruptly...
Why is it that someone can suffer from such severe psychosis that they will do EVERYTHING including lying under oathe to keep thier own child from his father?
My option will be this... send a social worker to my home and allow them to stay the ENTIRE 7 weeks this summer while my son is being tormented and abused in my home... while we break him down and defeat his spirit, then you can take him out of my home based on something real. Hows that sound?
My wife, so fed up with my sons biological mother, has joined a group of step moms sufferin from the same issues... apparently biological moms going completely batty is not uncommon whatsoever! Who'd have thought all of that estrogen could cause such trauma.
When SWMBO is having her time of the month, remember me, and thank your SWMBO for only being cranky and not wanting to take over the world.
Thanks for listening...
We are heading to court for the second time in 2008... I was awarded long distance patenting time for summers since we live 5-6 hours apart and thus weekend visits are not even healthy for my son (we moved for my job). His mother is trying to block my ability to have him in my home for half the summer, thinking it is detrimental to his well being. This is why we are returning to court on April 1st...
Tonight I was told that my home is not safe.
We do not love my son.
His teacher is going to testify in court that coming to my home is not in his best interest.
My PARENTS are going to testify that he should not be allowed to come to my home.
Etc...
Keep in mind that his teacher and I email on a weekly basis concerning my sons progress and I recieve all of his weeky school updates from her. Also keep in mind that his teacher advocated allowing my son to even email me from school so that we can also communicate that way, in addition to telephone contact. Keep in mind that the email thing, his mother does not want to allow? Why?
My home is not safe, although his mother, nor any social worker have visited our home, let alone while my son is here visiting. This is a recurring statement that is never very specific.
We do not love my son... which of course is why we go to court and fight this rediculous crap every six months, and why I gleefully pay child support. It is also why his bedroom on our new home, that he has not yet had a chance to visit, is completely decorated BEFORE my own... yup, I hate that brat!
My parents are going to testify, along with his teachers? At this point I called her bluff and said, well I am recording this call... so I certainly hope that all of these people show up, otherwise after listening to this the judge will think you are only trying to intimidate and harass me. He will also know that you are a liar...
At this point she hung up abruptly...
Why is it that someone can suffer from such severe psychosis that they will do EVERYTHING including lying under oathe to keep thier own child from his father?
My option will be this... send a social worker to my home and allow them to stay the ENTIRE 7 weeks this summer while my son is being tormented and abused in my home... while we break him down and defeat his spirit, then you can take him out of my home based on something real. Hows that sound?
My wife, so fed up with my sons biological mother, has joined a group of step moms sufferin from the same issues... apparently biological moms going completely batty is not uncommon whatsoever! Who'd have thought all of that estrogen could cause such trauma.
When SWMBO is having her time of the month, remember me, and thank your SWMBO for only being cranky and not wanting to take over the world.
Thanks for listening...